When Marriage Counselling is required?
Every marriage has certain issues or conflicts, no marriage exists without a problem. It may be quite common for you to have basic issues in your marriage, but when not dealt with it could lead to serious trouble. In a marriage/relationship, there are several stressors that could require to seek professional help, especially if your partner:
- Is taking you as granted.
- Is emotionally blackmailing you.
- Is jealous of you.
- Uses verbal insults, mean language and nasty behaviour.
- Gets angry with you easily and frequently put-downs control.
- Is involved in an extra-marital affair.
- Has different sets of rules for self and for you.
- Is very possessive and won’t let allow to talk to family or friends.
- Criticizes your friends and family and asks you to stop seeing them.
- Scares you by driving fast, drinking too much or doing risky things.
- Has threatened to hurt you or has hurt you even if he/she is sorry afterwards.
- Makes threats to commit suicide if you don’t obey or disagree.
- Forces you to indulge in indecent sexual behaviour, and puts you down when you refuse.
Ideally, both partners should come for counselling together. Pointing fingers at each other do not help. Relationship counsellor/marriage counsellor help couples to develop mutually caring, respectful and lasting relationships. However, if you are ready to seek help but your partner is not, it is still worth to contact relationship expert or marriage counsellor alone and comprehend the situation from a different or neutral perspective.
Dr Nisha Khanna as a Relationship/Marriage Counsellor proffers online, telephonically and face to face Counselling Services. If you are living in Delhi, India or any other part of World, you can approach us through any of these mediums. For further details visit Bye Tense, or call us at +91-9312730331
